Sex Dating Club

I blogged a couple of days ago about a visit I was expecting from an Adult Sex Dating buddy. After a flurry of nervous txts on Monday afternoon he arrived at my place.
One look at him and I knew he was everything I had been expecting from our months of chatting online. Tall, well built and handsome, with the most amazing eyes and a very sexy smile … oh be still my beating heart. One soft, slow kiss and the stampeding herd of butterflies (or were they elephants??) in my stomach settled down to a quiet dull thudding.
With a sense of humour that kept me laughing and an intelligent mind that meant for great conversation, and that firm click of perfect chemistry, we spent a fabulous time together.
It’s been a while since a man kissed me and I felt weak at the knees but OMG YES! Beautiful, soft, slow kisses which drove me crazy. This man has lips, hands and tongue that he knows how to use to take a girl to heaven and back, not to mention …. ohhhhh mmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!
Hoping to have the chance to play again while you are home in NZ … Mr You Know Who You Are!

In trying to explain what with wrong with Mr. Nic, I couldn’t explain what I was missing. There were a lot of things.
I missed the passion. I missed being looked at with lust and desire and the almost impossibility of keeping your mouth off of mine and your hands off of me.
I missed the desire. To be looked at when I passed by as something you want to grab and make me scream with desire and excitement.
I missed the love taken away because of too many affairs and disrespect. I think the line was crossed within the last year. But others think it was crossed a longtime ago.
I miss the actual act of sex. The feeling of a dick inside me. The bulging, growing cock that I could wrap my tongue around.
I miss the kiss. Damn those kisses that make me want to crawl all over someone and show him how he makes me feel. Those wonderful, wonderful kisses.
I miss the chemistry. The look and the spark that ignites a thousand fires within me. The equations and intoxicating feeling only good chemistry can give.
I am ready for all of them. One of them at a time maybe. But all of them eventually.
What do you miss the most when your not in a good relationship?
What that is lacking seems the most desperate to acquire?
Find a sex partner at Adult Sex Dating club.

That said … i had an email in my inbox… the normal one not the Adult Sex Dating one.. from a couple i have played with from time to time…
She is *stunning* slim, blonde feminine… she looks good with no make up too… which i think is an under rated virtue! and him… well he aint so bad either… but ive played as a couple with them and as a single female… but today i got an email from them as they are planning a private party tonight and was wondering if i fancied coming along…
Would i fancy coming along… now usually this would be a slam dunk… yep i bloody well would… and who knows come 6pm i could change my mind… but right now…ive said maybe… but truthfully I’m not up for it .. today…
however – as usual – i like to keep my options open so i emailled back and asked for pics of the other people who are going to be there…
Now this may seem a little weird to those that don’t know.. most couples trust the hosts that everyone is going to be fairly attractive… well me… not so much and there is a story behind it…
about 5 years ago i went to a party with my ex… it was a couple we knew fairly well and i was assured they are all lovely and sexy… s i thought… ok then…

So went to a free sex games party last night. Yes I know Halloween was a week ago, but free sex games party was postponed due to everyone having kids. So went to the party last night and I went as a leopard….of sorts. The picture looks like what I wore except the teal lace was black on mine. Then of course I had to wear the ears, tail and of course the black stilletos.
free sex games Party was alot of fun because I had a date. A new playmate came down and joined me for the party. I love the way this guy treats me. I mean he compliments me all the time, sincerely. He holds my hand, because he wants to. I turn to find him staring at me, because he finds me beautiful. He is a few years younger, but alot more mature then some men I have dated since being on the dating scene the last two years.

Anyway back to the party, lol. It was an free sex games party, bdsm/swinger party to be exact. Now mind you, I am very interested in bdsm…. Read more »

i bring my camera wherever i go and was in the hotel texting with my bf at 11:30pm. he suggested i put on a short skirt and garter belt and try to get a man to come to my room and take photos of me.
i honestly thought i’d be going to an empty bar intimidating what few guys would be there with my garter peeking out… ending up feeling a bit giddy that i went, and then go back up to my room alone…
but i ended up having a nice conversation with a man at the bar and eventually it came up why i was dressed so provocatively. he obliged and came up to my room to take photos for a couple of hours…

Well, it’s been a very interesting weekend. Managed to get through the maids room and get rid of some of the stuff that was there. Was very hard, but it’s been done.
Am so glad that DM2 was able to take it through to the dump as there was no way I would’ve been able to do that as well. Have had a wonderful, thought provoking past 5 days. Feels good to be able to be myself again, ok part of myself, I still have a ways to go. Thanks as well to my friends on Sex Finder, it feels to good to know that other people care too. Silly I know, just makes the crying and missing a bit easier to handle. Have had a few replies back from my CV’s as well as having a few interviews too. So am just waiting to see what will happen.

It’s just a body and ass and a real person behind all that. Not into all the pervs here. I like Real males not little boys who seem to play with themselves while viewing me and other females on here.
My body is very nice and I take pride in it looking good. But don’t appreciate some of the emails I get. If we all went on what a pic said damn we would all be shallow! I guess we are shallow to a point.
But you boys make all the real guys look bad! I appreciate the views but please remember I’m not here for sex. this just isn’t a sex site. And yes I have to admit I love to look as well and flirt. But I much rather see a clothed male/half clothed male than one showing his penis constantly.
But just post. Because when you send me an email some I know haven’t read my profile from the way you word the email. This is a Swinger, Adult Chat but also Sex Dating Site for us ladies to find real and genuine males who want more then sex.
Hell, when you think about it anyone anywhere can get sex along with the dieases that come with it.
So, I choose the other route wait for him and he will eventually come along….someone who actually likes me for me and reads my profile and doesn’t insult my intelligence by saying I already like you because of my s/n or come sit on my face! Get a Damn Grip!
Please it is so unreal…there are real Gents here. So, please read the profile it pays and remember there is more to me than my ass.

Thanks for your comments and suggestions. Most of you kinda got it right.

As Kate and I are deeply kissing ready to make each other cum – along comes this guy.

He is wearing a condom – he knows the rules.

He wants one of us to suck him and grabs Kate’s hair…

Now what do you think happened?

Does he get his cock sucked?

I bet most of you won’t get what happened next! Love to hear your suggestions.

gangbangs are such fun.

I said a few blogs back that I would discuss orgasm denial – these are a few of the responses I got about the subject.

The first is from Abby – she’s 18 years old:

orgasm denial sounds awesome if it exists!!!! Can you tell how its done please.

This response is from another reader, Tease:

how do you not have an orgasm? I just can’t stop. do you have to hide your orgasm…..

what happens if you cannot hold back?!?!?

No Tease, I don’t have to hide my orgasm. This is how our Orgasm Denial works:

Most women would agree that they LOVE orgasms. When I was a teen I could not stop myself from masturbating – I just LOVED orgasms sooooooo much.

Well, one of the major aspects of the BDSM lifestyle is the denial of orgasm. Mostly, the Master / Mistress will tell the slave not to cum until allowed to do so.

Master may bring the slave close to orgasm and then STOP. It’s kinda fun to do.

Jon and I do this and call it TOD – Temporary Orgasm Denial. I usually want this to be as temporary as possible.

But there is a little more to it than plain ol’ TOD.

Many women buy their boyfriends and husbands Tshirts, socks, books – anything really. But what is the MOST precious thing you can gift to your mate?

Yes, you guessed it – your orgasms!

Now you might think I’m crazy – but I have gifted my orgasms to Jon. It’s his to do whatever he wants with.

He can make me have orgasms anytime – or NOT make me have them.

I KNOW I can masturbate any time I want – but what’s the fun in that! My orgasm have a much HIGHER VALUE now because it’s controlled by Jon. And you know what – I never masturbate by myself any more!

Now, I only orgasm when Jon tells me to or makes me or allows me.

Luckily Jon is not stupid. He exercises his gift reasonably. He just uses it to control me sexually.

The result?

When I do orgasm I just EXPLODE! I have the most amazing intense orgasms. Often I can have intense orgasms 10 – 20 times in a session.

And what about him controlling me sexually? Well, I LOVE that. I WANT that. I am a sexual masochist. He’ll make me do all sorts of crazy things to earn my orgasms!

He’ll whip me, tie me up, share me, give me away – all sorts of deviant things – and I just lap it all up knowing I’m eventually going to get the most explosive orgasms!

Eat your heart out Pavlov – you should have experimented on humans not dogs!

In this pic Jon has denied me an orgasm for nearly one week! Over that time, he has been extra cruel by playing with my clit and bringing me close close close to orgasm – but not letting me cum!

I am sitting and talking with him. And without even knowing what I am doing I slip down the chair, my skirt lifting, and I position myself for him. I just want him to fuck me HARD!

What does he do?

He takes a pic and tells me to let him work!

I try harder to entice him by pushing up my pussy, opening my legs wider, and moving up and down in a lascivious manner. [I'll post a pic of this if you ask nicely.]

Does he buy it? No, he just pats my pussy and tells me to go away!

Am I unhappy having gifted my orgasms to Jon? Read more »

Thanks for all your comments and suggestions. It’s a JOY to relive this fun group session with YOU.

If you’ve been following the blog series so far, you’ll know that Kate and I have been allowed to orgasm and that her orgasm has triggered her desire to make me cum – again and again.

In this pic we start making love. We are kissing deeply – our breasts are pressed tight against each other. I love the feel of her hard nipples on my breasts.

I grab Kate’s pert bottom as we kiss. I can see in the pic that this has triggered another response from Kate – unknowingly, she starts to gap her anus.

Wow – that’s a clear sign she wants something in it – but guys you have to wait – all 15+++ of you!

You can also see a little cock in the top left hand corner.

This guy is very bold and he’s going to play a part in frustrating Kate’s resolve to make me cum again and again.

What do you think he is trying to do?

Will he succeed?

Stay tuned to find out!

In the meantime, I love your suggestions and comments – so please respond.