Friday, 6 of December of 2013

Category » Online dating

I’ve been here too long…

What was alluded to in the second post was the self esteem issue that I have been wrestling with lately. I honestly believe finding men to have sex on here was tied to a need to prop up my self esteem. If men allegedly found me sexy, then I felt better about myself. But it was a false prop and a vicious cycle.
I have met two – only two – men from this site since last January. One worked out rather well, though it was a convoluted process of compromise to get together. The second was meh, no thanks.
And you know what? I am pretty much perfectly fine with that. Wanna know why? Because I have decided I deserve better than casual, “I’d fuck anything” kind of sex. It just makes me wanna go “iPhone Porn“.
So this is sort of a new mindset for me…though there are other reasons for the possible hiatus. There are just other things going on that require time and thought. Some of these things are personal challenges to be a better person….and that just doesn’t seem to jive with what goes on here.

The People of Adult Sex Dating, IMHO…

In the past six months I would say I have noticed such an array of people entering the Carolina Chat Room. From Professional Whiners to the regular alcoholics who have always been there but chosen to be over looked. The back stabbers, liars, cheaters and just all around ass wipes have always been there and typically keep a low enough profile.

Just recently the alcoholics, the mouth breathers and those so in love with themselves they have NO room for another… have chosen to rear their slurred speech and fugly ass heads in an attempt to ruin an otherwise normal type atmosphere. I am not sure if it is from boredom or because as one replied to me ~ just out and out NO LIFE!!!. Sadly, their impact on the chat room is typically that of rude, crude and just falling down drunken stupor. It is one thing to comment rudely, it is another to go on a rip in an effort to verbally abuse another just to satisfy their sadness at an empty glass and life. But because their life is unreasonably boring and peered through beer goggles and what other variety of rose colored articles she chooses to slap on her mug, does NOT give her the right to lay her bullshit on ANY ONE because of her lack of happiness/companionship/or boorish manners. Go and Find partner here!

You can NOT help but cringe when they enter chat because you just know they haven’t had a good day; they they are in there to garner praise because their day sucked; that they rarely have a kind word or thought about anyone and strive to make sure they make others aware of that, and the crowning moment: Their disgusting sex lives discussed openly enough to make one gag, hack and turn another shade of pale. We all know that person hasn’t been laid since condoms were invented because it is too hard to keep a penis hard enough to place it in a condom to do this kind of person ~ UNLESS of course, this is a blow job, in which case, she is ALSO a pro!!! God Bless those lips and I don’t mean those vaginal ones Those have seen more dicks than a New York bus urinal on a bad day

Looking for partner

Life’s too short to be so serious forever, don’t you think? A lot of people do not understand my sense of humor and why I keep looking for love in most peculiar places. I think you may be the type of person I’m looking for.
I’m quite a good and gentle person who can be quite straight forward, at moments. I have a sort of fetish for strangers, who let everything go wild. But only you should know of this, okay? I’m on this site called Sex Personals Meendo , and it provides a free anonymous msg service, perfect for me! Give me a holla when you are there,. Cheers!”

When minds and bodies meet and match

I blogged a couple of days ago about a visit I was expecting from an Adult Sex Dating buddy. After a flurry of nervous txts on Monday afternoon he arrived at my place.
One look at him and I knew he was everything I had been expecting from our months of chatting online. Tall, well built and handsome, with the most amazing eyes and a very sexy smile … oh be still my beating heart. One soft, slow kiss and the stampeding herd of butterflies (or were they elephants??) in my stomach settled down to a quiet dull thudding.
With a sense of humour that kept me laughing and an intelligent mind that meant for great conversation, and that firm click of perfect chemistry, we spent a fabulous time together.
It’s been a while since a man kissed me and I felt weak at the knees but OMG YES! Beautiful, soft, slow kisses which drove me crazy. This man has lips, hands and tongue that he knows how to use to take a girl to heaven and back, not to mention …. ohhhhh mmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!
Hoping to have the chance to play again while you are home in NZ … Mr You Know Who You Are!

Garter belt and a hotel

i bring my camera wherever i go and was in the hotel texting with my bf at 11:30pm. he suggested i put on a short skirt and garter belt and try to get a man to come to my room and take photos of me.
i honestly thought i’d be going to an empty bar intimidating what few guys would be there with my garter peeking out… ending up feeling a bit giddy that i went, and then go back up to my room alone…
but i ended up having a nice conversation with a man at the bar and eventually it came up why i was dressed so provocatively. he obliged and came up to my room to take photos for a couple of hours…


Well, it’s been a very interesting weekend. Managed to get through the maids room and get rid of some of the stuff that was there. Was very hard, but it’s been done.
Am so glad that DM2 was able to take it through to the dump as there was no way I would’ve been able to do that as well. Have had a wonderful, thought provoking past 5 days. Feels good to be able to be myself again, ok part of myself, I still have a ways to go. Thanks as well to my friends on Sex Finder, it feels to good to know that other people care too. Silly I know, just makes the crying and missing a bit easier to handle. Have had a few replies back from my CV’s as well as having a few interviews too. So am just waiting to see what will happen.

Girls Try to Make Love With 15 Guys

Thanks for all your comments and suggestions. It’s a JOY to relive this fun group session with YOU.

If you’ve been following the blog series so far, you’ll know that Kate and I have been allowed to orgasm and that her orgasm has triggered her desire to make me cum – again and again.

In this pic we start making love. We are kissing deeply – our breasts are pressed tight against each other. I love the feel of her hard nipples on my breasts.

I grab Kate’s pert bottom as we kiss. I can see in the pic that this has triggered another response from Kate – unknowingly, she starts to gap her anus.

Wow – that’s a clear sign she wants something in it – but guys you have to wait – all 15+++ of you!

You can also see a little cock in the top left hand corner.

This guy is very bold and he’s going to play a part in frustrating Kate’s resolve to make me cum again and again.

What do you think he is trying to do?

Will he succeed?

Stay tuned to find out!

In the meantime, I love your suggestions and comments – so please respond.


Why you guys go after the younger gals I’ll never know. They might be younger looking but do they know what it takes to please you? NO, they don’t. I know that because so many guys go to them and come back telling me so. I know what I’m doing, lets face it I’ve been pleasing guys much longer. I still look good and I still got what it takes. So if you want to waste your time on giggles and a sneak peek at a tit, go on. If you want some real action come on in and join me and let me show you what a real woman has to offer. I promise you one thing, when you leave my private room you won’t be horny anymore. I get many guys coming back for more, so that should tell you I know what I’m doing!

Come and see more now!


I used to be married but soon found out being with the same guy in bed every night got old, especially when he wasn’t giving me what I needed anymore. I mean I know he works but so do I? Does working stop your sex drive guys? I still need sex and I need it more after a long day of stress just to relax. Anyway, now here I am single again with no regrets. I go out and have fun and when I want sex at home well, I just turn on my cam and someone is always here to please me. I always give back because I love pleasing guys that join me in my cam room. When I’m here I’m here for the same thing you are so why play games. We both know what we want and need and all we have to do is find out how we want it… few words and lots of action.

Come and see more now!


I may look like the girl next door but I don’t act like her. Unless your next door neighbor keeps dirty little secrets like I do lol. Anyway, I’m a 20 year old college student who does this to unwind and just have some fun. I love being here and meeting new guys. I guess I am a bit over sexed but so far no guys have complained to me about it. In fact a few asked me to slow down, imagine that. Seems like I need a man and not a boy right. So do you fit that job? I’m always looking. I’m here for you and for me. I love to do whatever you have in mind and my mind is wide open to anything you want. I rarely say no to anything unless its really something gross. I enjoy being watched and love to get down and dirty. Ready to play with me??

Come and see more now!

Funny 3d adult sex games and online porn games for free!
Huge games and online porn games - sexy flash games for adults
Also you can try our 3d free sex games - here many good games for free.